Women like to stay in their home town, surrounded by relatives and familiar faces. They're really big on this sort of culture. Many women consider men to be a sort of accessory, and not actually important to their lives long-term. Once they have the house and a good lawyer to seize it in the divorce, that is often the end of their marriage. This explains a great deal about what is wrong with America today.
Men don't care about home towns. Men like fast cars and motorcycles and uncomplicated friendly women. Men like seeing new faces and are more content to live without all the social requirements that women prefer. We find beer more satisfying than women. Men go fishing because their wives are obnoxious on a regular basis, and fish and mosquito bites and freezing cold or sweaty heat are less annoying than dealing with her. There's not much advantage for men staying in their home town. Home towns are for women and raising children.
Two story craftsman home, built by one guy on weekends, with a hammer, nails, saw, tape measure, and level. |
Men used to get a job, buy a piece of property, then build their own home on the weekend. It was a called a Craftsman House, because you bought the plans from the Sears and Roebuck Catalog for about $4. That's around $100 in today's money. It had plans and instructions on how to build it with hand tools: hammer and handsaw and square and plumb bob or spirit level. After they finished the house they would get married, and have a family. That was 100 years ago. Before rampant divorce and DNA tests that prove her kids aren't yours. Women want houses, but they won't build them for themselves like they should.
Building a house isn't actually that hard. I've done portions of it myself and even someone with weak arms and clumsy can still do this job. Most of the parts can be bought at Home Depot, Lowes, and your local lumber mill.
Women love to declare their independence, but I have never witnessed one building her own home in the real world. An independent woman should be able to do everything a man can, everything from change her car's oil, mow her lawn, and build a house. The same as men did 100 years ago.
Women insist they are equal or better than men. This is conceited, but they can certainly stop whining and stand up for themselves. Get a job. Save your money. Buy some land. Get some house plans online for a house that will suit your actual needs, with room to house your accidental pregnancy results. Pay for the building permits. Where I live that's $160,000 for the permits alone, which is too much and a great reason to move somewhere else. So don't do it here. But build your house, at least 700 square feet, not this tiny house crap.
A tiny house is not a house. Its a wooden tent, and just as unliveable. At best they are a detached guest room.
Build your house legally and don't miss any steps or hammer in a screw (something I HAVE witnessed women do).
Get the house inspected with building permits as you go so it is legal, and pay the fees and taxes like men do. Every woman should be able to do this job. Stop needing men to pay for your conceits. Pay for it yourself so you can stand up and have legitimate pride. When you build your own house, with your own money and your own labor you then have the right to do what you want.